breaking up is hard to do...

on a usual tuesday shift jejen was asking how to make basted a guy...uhhmmmm i felt she asked the wrong person so i just answered with the cliche "honesty is still the best policy"...she responded with "covered honesty" (murag hallortz!!! li nana honesty dba? nyahaaa:-p)...the chat continues and ended up with is it like breaking up?..i earnestly said "YES!"...and she then posed a question i couldn't even answer base on experience (so hindi ako credible na endorser! nyaks!)...and walahhhh thus the initiation of the post...medyo interesting topic and relate-able nho?...pasensiya nah medyo feeling intellectual ang approach ko sa topic as I never get to break up with lotsa guys...there was only one and it's not 100% categorized break-up pah kay hindi naman naging officially us nyahhaaaa....ayyyy ambot uist...enjoy na lang my blahhh..blahhhh...

let's start with when is the breaking point or how do you know this is the moment...all the more what made you decide to end things?...i can't help but relate experiences from my friends and my own as well...medyo mix2x nah lamang para dili ma-identify...here are possible scenarios that could lead to the event and tips...nakow! tips lang yan hap nyahahaa:)

majority would say that it starts when small conflicts and petty things become major issues. after the honeymoon stage ends, you get too familiar with each other making couples feel relax...you see during the lovey dovey stage you are into the getting to know stage and both of you wouldn't want to discourage or make the wrong impression so you are always walking on egg shells trying to look pleasant...once, the monsters hiding behind the fascade starts to surface bang! the vavayerzzz starts...pero dapat when you love the person you have to accept his/her flaws...if you couldn't fathom mistakes from your partner then it wasn't love after all..it was just attraction...you only looked on the physical and you would like that image preserved forever...in short you're not being realistic...2nd in rank, the love fades away...they say it's like you wake up one morning and the feeling went away...paakkk!!! pwede diay nah?...maybe to some it holds true...i had my own experience on this one...my friend just felt one day that her boyfriend felt distant and cold...i felt so sorry for my friend and i so hated the guy up until now nyahhaaa...my point is my friend deserves to know what happened...it's not a demand it's for simple respect na lang sa individual...lastly, the against all odds case...in real life the excitement it brings is uber2x....pamati superstar ang show nyhahahaa....in movies, the love team always wins but in real life i doubt it...what i'm trying to say is when it's love everything should be smooth sailing...it's not just the pair who felt the love but the people around them as well...dba?

as such in conclusion, as the song suggest it is really hard to do...but with all scenarios given kahit mag-iba man ang casting it still boils down to honesty to the shell it is about respect...ending something that is special is not easy...with tearful goodbyes it makes us loose our mind and it kinda lessens our self-esteem for a time...let me quote something "it's not the break up that hurts the most....it's the post-trauma that follows it.it's like..starting your life over and over again and you have no idea where to begin." it's the de-association that comes with the break-up...you both started a life together and getting it out of you system takes time...as they say time heals all wounds...how long that is...to each his own i guess...